Menarche

The first time she bleeds, the world quietly changes.

Preparing for Menstruation

Menarche arrives quietly in most households — a conversation in a bathroom, a packet of pads, a return to ordinary life. But something has crossed over, and it deserves to be noticed.

A first period is practical — there are pads to understand, changes in the body and questions about what happens next. But it can also be a meaningful moment in a girl's relationship with her body. How she meets menstruation, and the messages she receives around it, can stay with her for a long time.

Women's Den wants girls to meet this beginning with good information, openness and a sense that their changing bodies are nothing to be embarrassed about or left to figure out alone.

Around a first period there can be

  • Curiosity mixed with shyness
  • Questions that aren't always easy to ask
  • Wondering what will happen and when
  • Feeling that periods are something you should keep to yourself
  • Adults wondering how to offer something different from what they themselves received

Something to take with you

Growing Up & Periods

Growing Up & Periods

A guide for parents

Wondering where to begin?
Explore the support available around first periods and growing up.

Explore First Period support

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